What Should You Expect After Your First Christian Date?
First date is always an exciting and somehow memorable experience. All the loneliness you might have felt inside is now slowly fading. This excitement usually continues after your actual date. It is like a date after-shock. Questions like “what will happen now?”, “What should you do?” What should you expect?” will typically pop out from your mind.
There are numerous things you can do after your first date, whether it’s successful or not. If it’s not, well you can just arrange another one. Only if you are open enough not to let the disappointment from the last night’s date bother you. But if it goes well, the decision of making the next move will just be up on any of the two of you.
Who should take the first move?
To continue the relationship you have built, it is needed to have a continuous communication. A call or a message after the date is usually expected by both parties, but sometimes both hesitates and don’t know who will take action due to numerous consideration.
In the traditional society, man is usually expected to initiate and make the follow-up call. Whereas women are hesitant to do the act due to the fear of getting unwanted impression such as being too desperate or eager from the people around her.
What man should expect?
Remember that women usually just wait for you to be the first one to respond. If you want to see that person again, then you must take an action. Send her email or talk to her through the phone and make her know what your experience is being with her. You can also thank her for her time. If she appears to be open and friendly, this might be the right time to ask her for another date.
Some women got the courage to take the first email or call. If this happens, make sure you are prepared with your answer. If you are looking on seeing her again, you can then ask her to go out. But if you are not interested anymore, better say the truth than make the girl expect something more.
What woman should expect?
The possibility that the guy will call will always be there. In case the guy contacts you, be sure you have a prepared answer, regardless of whether you like to see the person again or not.
If you don’t want to wait for him to call, you can then do it yourself. Well, there’s nothing really wrong with it especially if you just want to thank him for the date. It is also possible that the guy is also waiting for you to make the call to know whether you are still interested with him or not. Take the move so you both will not wait for each other.
When talking with the person with whom you’ve dated with, talk with him/her in a sincere and friendly manner. But you must also not forget that you are not yet couple, so don’t assume. If the person seems to be unfriendly and unenthusiastic, better not expect anymore because the possibility is that they might not really interested with you.
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